Little while ago I got a call from my best friend. I picked up the phone and said “hello”.
“You know that slut?” he said. It sounded very urgent and distracted.
“Who? Which one?” I asked.
Then he went on and told me this guy which we both hate has got on to a reality show (American Idol like) and went up until 4th round.
“What?” I was surprised. “I didn’t know he got a talent do anything other than get on his knees.”
So we both started talking about him and boiled out blood on his account for a while. As soon as I end the call, it got me thinking. Why do I hate him? Why do I even care? I haven’t even talked with him. Neither my friend. He is one of the guys who had all, Looks, money, contacts and sex. And he got a big attitude problem which I thought is the reason why we hate him. However more and more I think of it, more and more I refuse to buy that.
Is it because I am jealous? May be its just that.
A hetro guy inherits more from father while homo guys get it good from mother. Fashion for fashion, shopping and creativity are some of the examples to prove my theory. It seems like jealousy is another thing I got from my mom’s side. In Sri Lanka, jealousy considered to be a female characteristic. So am I becoming a girl?
I am not a girlish type of gay guy even though girls and I have many things in common; Guys, shopping and handbags being few of them. I can be bit girlish mostly the why I talk when I am in a safe environment. Nevertheless that is most being funny and as a joke. However the similarity of a gay guy and a girl got me thinking..........
Are we guys becoming “girls with balls?”……..
I better find a way out of this or else my man will see no difference between me and his girlfriend when he was "Straight".
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sometimes U speak as if ur the biggest liberator of all sexual minorities but Im sure that old Adam is still with u, when u simply try to draw a line between girly and boyish behaviour. those are just accpected norms that guys like u should challenge. instead of challenging them, u seem to approve them and promote them through ur blog!!! Im a bit more progressive than u it seems.
... and what Im most disapointed at is ur statement that girls with balls. all that u r saying is girls are worse than boys, they are full of jelousy and all other vice. thats sexual discrimination isnt it? claiming sexual equality at one level while promoting ideas of sexual discrimination at another level.. is it fair? ( Im ur familiar anonymous- u chatted with me on facebook last night, now u know who I m)
my dear Anon,
you are quite smart. you understood one of the hidden messages of the post. as you put it "old Adam" is still lives within me. but that's another post. i will write about it another time. i am not trying to draw a line between girlish and boyish guys because there is no line. its not black or white. its always some shade between them.
if i quote my post i said "In Sri Lanka, jealousy considered to be a female characteristic", i didnt say girls are full of jealous. you should see deeper than that to find the irony and humor which i am sure you can.
finally i dont know in which post i seemed like a biggest liberator of sexual minorities. because i can assure you i am not. i am not the perfect guy. i know there are lot for me to learn, lot to see, lot to face, lot to experience. but i am as perfect as i can be. however having said that, i dont believe one can be totally perfect till he try until death.
I don't think that there are such clear cut margins between men and women.
Not only homosexuals, many heterosexuals also like some of the things which are usually considered as belonging to the opposite sex.
That is their personal preference nothing to do with the orientation.
Is their any scentific basis to say that gays would inherit mothers qualities?
I never heard that.
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